In a loving relationship, there are often hurt feelings.
We have certain expectations of our partner,
and when they do not live up to them
we are likely to feel a sense of betrayal.
The truth is that if we put our hurt aside for a moment
we may realize that our lover was not even aware
of the expectations that we had for them.
These expectations are probably a carryover
of fantasies that we have in our heart of
how a perfect lover behaves. It is OK
to have these expectations. However, if we expect
our partner to fulfill them for us we must at let
them know what we would like.
No comments:
Post a Comment